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gamerunknown
You can talk about news.
Post by
ElhonnaDS
@Thror- Ah, ok. Good advice, then.
Post by
Rankkor
Ok- just asking. Parents can get weird like that. Sorry things suck so much right now :(
Yeah, I know, I've considered before that her parents don't like me, but I can't really think of a reason why, so I've tried to put it out of my mind.
As Elhonna said, if you haven't met them before, then they don't dislike "YOU" specifically, rather they either:
A: Think their daughter is still a little baby, too young to be dating.
or
B: Expect her daughter to meet this perfect prince charming and live in a palace with him, therefore any guy who fails to meet their expectations (Regardless of how unrealistically high they may be) is automatically met with a cold reception.
Pray to god its A bro', pray to god its A. Because parents that fall in the first group eventually come around and accept that their little girl is now a woman and entitled to live her own life. But parents stuck in the latter group can stay that way FOREVER!
(not trying to scare you, just telling you this because its my situation, my father-in-law hates my guts for no other reason than he expected his daughter to marry Prince Edward III or something)
@Kris- have you had problems with her parents before? I mean, do you think they might not like her dating at all, or might disapprove of you for some reason?
Thing is, I don't know. I haven't gotten to really meet them, because her father is always busy working, and her mother doesn't drive. As for the dating part, well, that could be it,
but I think they would have told her, they seem the type of people to do that
. About the disapproval, well, if they approved of her last boyfriend, then I don't see why they would disapprove of me...
wait a minute............ if you haven't met them, how could you possibly know that?
hey, I gave relationship advice.
@#$%ty advice, but advice still
Nick said he's like 16. You gave advice that is illegal in many states. Just saying.
so.much.win
Post by
Kristopher
Pray to god its A bro', pray to god its A. Because parents that fall in the first group eventually come around and accept that their little girl is now a woman and entitled to live her own life. But parents stuck in the latter group can stay that way FOREVER!
(not trying to scare you, just telling you this because its my situation, my father-in-law hates my guts for no other reason than he expected his daughter to marry Prince Edward III or something)
I think it might be A, but, she was in a relationship before (And it lasted quite a while).
@Kris- have you had problems with her parents before? I mean, do you think they might not like her dating at all, or might disapprove of you for some reason?
Thing is, I don't know. I haven't gotten to really meet them, because her father is always busy working, and her mother doesn't drive. As for the dating part, well, that could be it,
but I think they would have told her, they seem the type of people to do that
. About the disapproval, well, if they approved of her last boyfriend, then I don't see why they would disapprove of me...
wait a minute............ if you haven't met them, how could you possibly know that?
It's a guess, but, from the way she describes them and what they do, it seems like it might fit.
I admit, I'm kinda blowing
some
things out of proportion, and it's really bad... I was single for 5 years before this, and I've been starved of all this goodness, it stings like a mofo to have it so close, but be denied it time after time... I'm not coping with it very well, if you can't tell. It would be a little easier to handle if I were actually busy during the day too, but, alas, I'm not...
We've been dating for little over a month now, and they've allowed her to come over to my house three times, and we've gone to two movies together (one of those was before we were dating) (Albeit, most of our plans were delayed a week or so, and her dad dropped her off late for mostly everything...). We had plans for last weekend, but those got brutally cancelled, we have plans for tomorrow, but those look dead too, and we have plans for Sunday, and we have no idea about those... It's summer vacation, you'd think they'd allow her to have more free time :(
We've already established that my dad is willing to pick her up and drop her off, so her getting a ride is not a problem at this point...
I'm really sorry to dump this on you guys like this, I know I go on rants way too often and I'm trying to stop... But talking about it is helping me, and I'd like to thank you guys for talking back and listening.
Post by
Rankkor
I think it might be A, but, she was in a relationship before (And it lasted quite a while).
It may have lasted, but did they gave the other guy an easier time? I mean they could had been as hard on him as they are on you.
I admit, I'm kinda blowing some things out of proportion, and it's really bad... I was single for 5 years before this
wait......... how old are you?
I'm really sorry to dump this on you guys like this, I know I go on rants way too often and I'm trying to stop... But talking about it is helping me, and I'd like to thank you guys for talking back and listening.
hey hey hey what are you apologizing for? =(
We're your friends, if you need to talk, then lets talk, its kinda what we do here all the time. (Which is why I kinda sorta wish all of us would play wow, in a single realm, and a single faction, and a single guild.........................)
Also, I'd like to repeat my previous statement, parents are no obstacle for true love. As long as you prove to her constantly how much you love her, how much she means to you, and how much are you willing to make her happy, the relationship will blossom, no matter how hard her parents may try. I was in your shoes (probably worse, Reina's dad truly hated me beyond reasonable levels) and despite that, I persevered.
hang in there little bro', =)
Post by
Kristopher
I think it might be A, but, she was in a relationship before (And it lasted quite a while).
It may have lasted, but did they gave the other guy an easier time? I mean they could had been as hard on him as they are on you.
Perhaps they were, but I don't know/want to ask. I don't really think it's as bad as I think it is, they've just been really busy lately, but in my position, it sure as hell seems otherwise...
I admit, I'm kinda blowing some things out of proportion, and it's really bad... I was single for 5 years before this
wait......... how old are you?
I'm 18.5 years old, and a senior in High School.
I'm really sorry to dump this on you guys like this, I know I go on rants way too often and I'm trying to stop... But talking about it is helping me, and I'd like to thank you guys for talking back and listening.
hey hey hey what are you apologizing for? =(
We're your friends, if you need to talk, then lets talk, its kinda what we do here all the time. (Which is why I kinda sorta wish all of us would play wow, in a single realm, and a single faction, and a single guild.........................) That's hard to do, but, I need something to do... maybe I can make arrangements :)
Also, I'd like to repeat my previous statement, parents are no obstacle for true love. As long as you prove to her constantly how much you love her, how much she means to you, and how much are you willing to make her happy, the relationship will blossom, no matter how hard her parents may try. I was in your shoes (probably worse, Reina's dad truly hated me beyond reasonable levels) and despite that, I persevered.
I do, or try to, without coming off too strong (I don't want to scare her away, hehe :P). I think this situation will pass, and it's just one (of many, no doubt, they're standard issue with relationships) rough patches, and if I make it out of this one alive, I can survive the next ones. But it still doesn't diminish how much it sucks...
hang in there little bro', =)
For my sake, and hers, I'll have to :) She is too amazing to lose, and I'll try my best not to. I can't do much about current circumstances, though...
Post by
OverZealous
Well, that was one hell of a training camp - out of 21 swimmers present,
17
fell ill at some point. The lowest point of the camp was probably when we were three swimmers at morning practice because some hadn't slept because their room mates were throwing up or something like that. Holy crap.
How is everyone?
Post by
Azazel
Better than the swimmers.
Post by
Rankkor
Well, that was one hell of a training camp - out of 21 swimmers present,
17
fell ill at some point. The lowest point of the camp was probably when we were three swimmers at morning practice because some hadn't slept because their room mates were throwing up or something like that. Holy crap.
How is everyone?
wow, are you ok man?
Post by
OverZealous
Well, that was one hell of a training camp - out of 21 swimmers present,
17
fell ill at some point. The lowest point of the camp was probably when we were three swimmers at morning practice because some hadn't slept because their room mates were throwing up or something like that. Holy crap.
How is everyone?
wow, are you ok man?
Haha yeah I'm quite fine, thanks for asking - while everyone else got worse, I just kept feeling better and better - enjoying the sun and stuff. I never once felt even half sick for the entire week, and got to explore Torremolinos and Malaga instead of staying in the hotel room emptying my stomach. Felt kind of lucky, lol.Better than the swimmers.
Oviously
Post by
Patty
Well, that was one hell of a training camp - out of 21 swimmers present,
17
fell ill at some point. The lowest point of the camp was probably when we were three swimmers at morning practice because some hadn't slept because their room mates were throwing up or something like that. Holy crap.
How is everyone?
OZ DID YOU SEE OUR QUESTION
Post by
Adamsm
Afternoon all.
Post by
OverZealous
Well, that was one hell of a training camp - out of 21 swimmers present,
17
fell ill at some point. The lowest point of the camp was probably when we were three swimmers at morning practice because some hadn't slept because their room mates were throwing up or something like that. Holy crap.
How is everyone?
OZ DID YOU SEE OUR QUESTION
NO WHERE IS IT
Post by
240140
This post was from a user who has deleted their account.
Post by
OverZealous
Hey OZ. We have a question to ask you... about male parts... on swimmers... and how they always seem so.... small. IS THIS REQUIRED TO BE A GOOD SWIMMER? We thought you'd know... since you are one... and you have male parts... so...
ANSWER US, OZ!
Okay, falling-of-chair-laughing session over.
I'm warning youNo, modern swimming gear is pretty tight, though, so it tends to look that way. That and uh, the effect that eh, cold water has on certain body parts
>.>
Post by
240140
This post was from a user who has deleted their account.
Post by
donnymurph
Still, having a small package would certainly help to reduce drag.
Post by
OverZealous
Well that's not exciting at all.
Sorry to disappoint. I'll let you know if it becomes a requirement
=D
Still, having a small package would certainly help to reduce drag.
The question is how many swimmers would sacrifice their "male pride" for faster times
^^
Post by
240140
This post was from a user who has deleted their account.
Post by
Patty
OZ, wouldn't speedos make your ^&*! look bigger? And what about
before
the cooling effect of the water?
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